I was super overly involved for like the first 6 months and it really made the whole growing process not as much fun for me cause I was internalizing every issue and way overthinking things and basically being a total control freak about it lol. Letting go of control and letting the girls just do their thing made it enjoyable again cause it took a lot of the stress away. It also allows for swings in my mental health where I just can't even be bothered to get up to do anything or when I get hyperfocused on other stuff. Don't get me wrong some fantastic growers absolutely love a very scientific approach to it and there's nothing wrong with that at all, I just found it wasn't for me! Flexibility and allowing yourself to change your mind and your direction, to try new methods, are probably some of the most important parts of growing.