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cool beanz :headbang: and ya, i hear ya on lack of time, access, etc....only recently, i was finally able to buy meself another set o' drumz for me 60th birthday...before that, i hadn't played in a lil over 20y :yoinks: it was/is a uzed set & basically a "heinz 57" affair, lol, but will be a 6-piece when all is said & done...single bass, but double pedal :eyebrows:, umpteen cymbalz, etc etc :rofl:....i'm still piecin it all together, but as ya know, drum shit, even uzed, is def not cheap :nono:, so it'z still gonna be a lil while, lol :doh: i was jus plain lucky way back in the womb & was pretty much born knowin how to play the sillee thingz & wouldn't know what to do if i didn't know how to play, lol :shrug: i too was in the school band in middle school & high school, and yes, that included marching band as well in hs ;) but anyway, if ur into metal, then u def need to check out the metal buffet i plaster up every Caturday right here in LS...the one i did yesterday is already way back on page 843-844, lol, but anyway, alwayz great to meet a fellow drummer & -> Up The Ironz! :headbang: ppp
 
You get to be you. I'm good living alone. Waaaaaaaaaay less drama. I've always been self-reliant and independent, so it's not really that big of a deal for me.

Sex, well, I'm not dead and everything still works well, so I'm good with FWB...... Friend With Benefits. Both know their roles and are good and very happy with that.
Never had a partner cheat, but I can't tolerate lies and most women just won't tell the truth, for whatever reason they can pull from their butt. Most women never develop good communication skills and draw conclusion from what they THINK you are saying and not what you're ACTUALLY are saying.
Yes, it would be nice to find a real partner where each support each other equally and can love each other with no reserve. Those that find such a partner are lucky couples.
Marriage or a dedicated relationship is NOT easy and it does take a 100% effort from each partner to make it work. Communication is the #1 key. Everything is tied to that one thing.
Third time was the charm for me. 5 years in and I'm still having to teach myself that its ok to express what I want and need, but I've gotten a lot better at it. A lot of that is working through deep seated trauma and trying my best to learn and grow emotionally and become healthier mentally. I've been putting a lot of work into self acceptance and trying to change my inner voice and self talk. Thankfully the communication came really easily for us (we're basically the same in how we process things, along with our core values), and allowing myself to set boundaries and requests is becoming easier with time. When you spend your life being told that your wants and needs and opinions mean nothing to those around you (family, partners, etc) unlearning that is a real challenge. I want better for my kids though, and being able to model that for them is incredibly important to me.
 
You get to be you. I'm good living alone. Waaaaaaaaaay less drama. I've always been self-reliant and independent, so it's not really that big of a deal for me.

Sex, well, I'm not dead and everything still works well, so I'm good with FWB...... Friend With Benefits. Both know their roles and are good and very happy with that.
Never had a partner cheat, but I can't tolerate lies and most women just won't tell the truth, for whatever reason they can pull from their butt. Most women never develop good communication skills and draw conclusion from what they THINK you are saying and not what you're ACTUALLY are saying.
Yes, it would be nice to find a real partner where each support each other equally and can love each other with no reserve. Those that find such a partner are lucky couples.
Marriage or a dedicated relationship is NOT easy and it does take a 100% effort from each partner to make it work. Communication is the #1 key. Everything is tied to that one thing.
I can't do FWB as i am woman-ish and want an attachment emotionally, in my 20s sure i could do it but never like it.
When i'm single i can go 5-6 years without sex and i don't die, i want that person you tell everything to and lean on each other, women these days seem to always be trying to upgrade to the next best thing, if you are not 100% what they want they will keep trying because being a woman means finding love is as easy as they make it.
You are right their communication skills suck and trying to remember everything thing you did wrong has to get old for them, forgive and make better should be the way to think not hold grudges and try and punish your partner for things they do wrong.

Oh well, i control my life now and i can be selfish but i don't like it and want a woman but then i think about all the bad women ive been with and wonder am i better off being alone?? not like i am good at meeting people and showing them how cool i am.
 
Third time was the charm for me. 5 years in and I'm still having to teach myself that its ok to express what I want and need, but I've gotten a lot better at it. A lot of that is working through deep seated trauma and trying my best to learn and grow emotionally and become healthier mentally. I've been putting a lot of work into self acceptance and trying to change my inner voice and self talk. Thankfully the communication came really easily for us (we're basically the same in how we process things, along with our core values), and allowing myself to set boundaries and requests is becoming easier with time. When you spend your life being told that your wants and needs and opinions mean nothing to those around you (family, partners, etc) unlearning that is a real challenge. I want better for my kids though, and being able to model that for them is incredibly important to me.
The third time was just like the others, great for a short period and then they decide they need to change you into their vision of the BBD(bigger better deal) and when they discover they cant , it is off to the races looking for their next BBD victim.......
 
The third time was just like the others, great for a short period and then they decide they need to change you into their vision of the BBD(bigger better deal) and when they discover they cant , it is off to the races looking for their next BBD victim.......
See and I think that's big too. Hubby and I both can't help but be our authentic selves, so there was no "you've changed" after a while when the real you comes out. Growth is important but you can't expect someone to change who they are fundamentally as a person.
 
Can we all agree to be done with the generalizing and kinda overall women bashing that's sorta been going on around here for a little while now? :shrug: Maybe, just maybe, women are all different and not a part of some giant conspiracy or Voltron type megawoman... Chances are if you're always getting the same treatment and reactions from all of the women, then you might want to figure out the cause and either change that, get to know some more women, or live with it. Everybody has exes for reasons
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Sorry about the rant...
 
Good morfnoevight all you happy Sunday stoners.

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I did not say I burned the leaves, I said that heat stress with Led is a very real thing, which it is.
I also mentioned the difference between light stress and heat stress.
When I noticed the light stress, it was because I had too many watts of lights/power in my cab, the intensity was over the top.
I think you should have quoted @Fermented_Fruitz original comment rather than my reply!

I copied this from grow weed easy
Light Burn or Light Stress
Light burn or light stress on cannabis plants causes the leaves or tips of leaves to turn yellow. The worst symptoms are usually closest to the grow light.


Problem: Your cannabis plant can only withstand a certain amount of light. After a certain point, your cannabis will start turning yellow or otherwise exhibit signs of stress on the leaves near the sources of light and/or heat.
How far away do I keep grow lights from my plants?
Light burn usually causes yellow leaves at the top of the plant directly under the grow lights (though it can appear on older leaves that have been exposed for a long time).
This light burned leaf is not happy...
Sometimes the first sign a plant is getting too much light is all the leaves start pointing up or “praying”, like this (though sometimes you don’t see any symptoms until the yellowing starts)
Example of a cannabis plant that is getting too high levels of light so all the leaves are pointing up
With light burn, often the inside veins stay green. Yellow leaves won’t fall off or be plucked off easily, unlike a nitrogen deficiency where leaves fall off on their own.
Example of cannabis symptoms caused by light burn. Yellowing top leaves under the grow lights, and the leaf margins often stay great. With light burn, leaves may turn red instead of yellow.
The leaves closest to the light may appear much more pale than the rest of the plant, and tips may turn yellow.
Light stress or light burn cause cause the edges of cannabis leaves to turn up and tips to turn yellowAnother example of yellow tips from light burn
Light stress has caused the edges of these leaves to turn up and the tips to turn yellow. If you see this, move your grow light up at least a few inches!
Sometimes light burn causes edges of leaves to turn up. If it goes on a long time, the leaves also start to become crispy and can even break off if you try to bend them
These leaves are so light stressed that the edges have turned up and the leaves have become crispy
You may noticed just the tallest colas getting droopy, which is sometimes a sign the light is too intense (though it could also be caused by root problems or over/under watering)
If the grow light is too close to the plant, some strains will respond with droopy colas (though lower leaves further from the light won't be droopy)'t be droopy)
Light burn is often mistaken for a Nitrogen deficiency which makes wilting yellow leaves. Nitrogen-deficient leaves fall off on their own, while light-burned leaves are hard to pluck off. A nitrogen deficiency starts from the bottom of the plant and moves up, while light burn often is worse at the top of the plant.
Cannabis light burn usually affects the top leaves closest to the grow light
Example of cannabis plant with light burn. Although this is often confused for a Nitrogen deficiency, if the yellow leaves are appearing at the TOP of the plant, and the symptoms are worse directly under the grow lights, it may be a case of cannabis light burn
A Nitrogen deficiency creates yellow leaves at the bottom of the plant as the Nitrogen is sucked out of the oldest leaves to feed the top of the plant. On the other hand, light burn produces yellow leaves at the top of the plant under the grow lights because the leaves have worked too hard and/or too long from the light being too close. The leaves aren’t able to keep up with regular plant processes.
Imagine sitting outside all day under a scorching sun, possibly for days on end. Even if you could handle it for a day or two, it might wear you down over days or weeks.
How can there be too much light if there’s no heat? Read the full guide
It’s probably light burn if mostly just the leaves closest to the lights are turning yellow
This plant has been light burned, as you can see by the yellow leaves at the top of the plant?
With cannabis plants that have light burn, your leaves can sometimes become yellow or red/purple, possibly with brown spotting, often with burnt tips/edges and margins that stay green. Other problems, like nutrient problems, can trigger or make the symptoms of light burn a lot worse. Leaves may also appear generally burnt in places when there’s too much light, especially when combined with heat or nutrient problems.
Nutrient deficiencies make light burn worse!
If you see light bleaching and unhealthy discoloration only on the parts of the plant directly under your grow light, or only on older leaves that are exposed to the light, it often means it’s too bright for your plants and you should move your grow lights further away! If your plant is also having other problems, it is much more likely to be affected by light burn. A healthy plant can withstand higher light levels than a sick plant.
If the lights are only slightly too close, maybe just an inch or a few cm, the yellowing from light burn may happen slowly over the course of days (or even weeks!) because leaves are dying early instead of immediately. Because of that, light burn may first appear on somewhat older leaves, which can be confusing and make it hard to diagnose.
Cannabis suffering from light stress
This cannabis seedling is being burned by too-close LED grow lights
This cannabis seedling is being burned by too-close LED grow lights
Another example of light burn from an LED grow light being kept too close to the plants
Example of light burn on a cannabis plant caused by the LED grow light being kept too close
These leaves of this LED-burnt plant started curling upwards
Example of yellow leaves curling and turning up due to light burn from a too-close LED grow light
This cannabis seedling basically grew up into the grow light! The heat from the bulb caused massive burning everywhere it touched. If a plant’s leaves directly touches the lights, it leaves “burns” from the heat of the bulbs.
This cannabis seedling was burnt by light
This plant was green and healthy through the vegetative stage under an LED grow light, but the leaves started dying soon after flowering started (even though that distance had been fine in the vegetative stage). The reason was the LED was too close. This is also very common with LED grow lights with just read and blue diodes, without any diodes in the green spectrum.
The yellow leaves and brown edges/tips are caused by LED grow light burn - the lights were kept too close, which burned the plant
These plants seem apparently healthy, but the top leaves keep getting lighter and lighter, in this case from a 600W HPS that was kept just under a foot (30cm) away. The leaves slowly turned yellow over the course of a few weeks, getting light burn even though the temperature was a comfortable 75°F (24°C).
Even spacing of cannabis colas - no-technique plant training can achieve this!
These yellow leaves were caused by an LED grow light that was too close. If you don’t realize it’s light burn, the symptoms are inexplicable!
LED light burn is causing yellow leaves at the top of these cannabis plants in the flowering stage
A mild case of marijuana light burn is often mistaken for a nutrient deficiency or a pH problem, but if you look closely, the symptoms are concentrated directly under the grow light.
These cannabis plants are showing the symptoms of light burn - yellow leaves at the top of the plant caused by the grow light being too close
Light Bleached Cannabis Buds Sometimes Turn White
This is how you get “albino” or white buds. Light bleaching is most common with high-power LEDs and HPS grow lights because these can be brighter than the sun. Basically, bud bleaching is what happens when buds get too much light, kinda like how hair can get bleached if you spend plenty of time in the sun. Except a “sun-burnt” bud is often less potent, and may have lost it’s “cannabis” smell!
Bleached white cannabis bud
White tip of this albino cannabis plant is actually caused by light bleaching
A closeup of the bleached part of a cannabis bud that was given too high levels of light
Buds which have been bleached tend to be low potency or even have no potency (no available THC or other cannabinoids). Therefore you should avoid light-bleaching your plants at all costs!
Text-book example of light bleaching cannabis making the buds white - this bleaching was caused by high-intensity LED grow lights
Sometimes light-bleached cannabis will get mis-labeled as “albino cannabis” or “white cannabis” but the truth is that the white color is not healthy, so this is not a desirable trait (even if it looks pretty cool).
Most of the Time, Light-Burned Buds Appear Burnt
Often though, light burned buds look like they’ve been burned.
LED-burnt cannabis buds – notice how all the tiny “sugar leaves” have turned yellow or brown
The sugar leaves on this LED-burnt cannabis bud are brown and crispy
In this case the LED-burn caused the leaves closest to the LED to turn red. Although the buds smoked pretty well anyway, they definitely weren’t as pretty as they could have been!
LED grow lights being kept too close caused this burn plant to grow red leaves and buds
The leaves too close to the LED grow light turned yellow and wilted. For some reason, cannabis plants seem a lot more prone to light burn after they start flowering.
These leaves turned yellow and wilted from being too close to the LED grow light - light burn strikes again!
Another example of a bud that has light burn from a too-close LED
Example of a bud that is suffering from light burn from a too-close LED grow light
Light burned bud on top, healthy bud below
Light burned cannabis bud on top, and healthy cannabis bud below. The light burned bud has a brownish appearance, and yellow spots at the tops of sugar leaves
Solution: If your marijuana plants are getting too much light, try removing some of the lights or moving your grow lights further away from the tops of the plants. If you can’t move the light further away, bend your plants over so the tops are further away or if your plant is still in the vegetative stage you might even consider cutting off the top of the plant to remove some of that height.
Reduce power of grow lights and/or move them further away from your plant
(How far away do I keep grow lights from my plants?)
It is unlikely for your plants to get “light-burned” from the sun when growing outdoors, and they definitely can’t accidentally grow into the sun. Outdoor plants can show signs of light stress if plants were used to shady conditions and moved into direct sunlight without time to get accustomed to the brigher light levels. It also may be possible in extreme high light conditions if the plant is unprotected but in general cannabis plants like a lot of light.
When making changes to your plant’s environment, it’s best to make changes relatively slowly if possible. For example when moving a cannabis plant from indoors or outdoors you might consider giving the plant some shade for a few days before moving it into full sunlight.
Sometimes heat stress can look like light stress. When learning how to grow cannabis, it’s best to try to keep things at a comfortable temperature at all times for optimal growth. If it’s too hot for you, it’s probably too hot for your plants. Outdoors, it’s a lot harder to control temperature, but there are steps you can take to protect your outdoor plants from the heat including supplementing with sea kelp, partially covering them and making sure they’re well watered.

Yeah IMPO those problems are from other environmental problems not LED light burn. Believe what you will.

That is from the same site that censored my topping an auto as an unsafe practice for their audience whose income depends on successful crops.
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Good morfnoevight all you happy Sunday stoners.

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Yeah IMPO those problems are from other environmental problems not LED light burn. Believe what you will.

That is from the same site that censored my topping an auto as an unsafe practice for their audience whose income depends on successful crops.
:crying:
So...If a bunch of random people register, and start talking up topping autoflowers.........it wouldn't hurt your feeling?
 
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