Oh I think so, it'll help if these late photos finish up reasonably well...I'm moving them into the solarium as space comes available the light quality is lousy but they are warm:smoking:
He's not dumb lol. He knows that cleaning is the top thing hubby bitches about. They tend to leave a path of destruction in their wake, so he knows the easiest way to make him happy is to get their shit straight.
Nah its fine. I'm more the neutral party in all this tbh, he's sad and the kids are upset with themselves and I'm just over here trying to get him to understand that they don't mean it and that they'd be devastated if he was gone. If its starting this early though I'm wondering how much I should dread these teenage years coming up. I've got a feeling we're gonna have at least one "you're not my real dad!" along the way which will probably be even worse since really he's the only real dad they've ever had.
Thanks for the rep hugs y'all. Hubs is off to work and gma literally just called to ask if she could pick up the boys now. Told her I'd drop them off later, that #2 was working on school work still. He's not, but if she knew they couldn't come yet because they're *gasp* cleaning I'd get an earful. Apparently that is 100% my responsibility and how dare I try to teach my kids to idk be functioning humans I guess. Really prefer they not go out into the world with no idea how to take care of themselves like I did, that kind of crash course is *not* easy. She caters to them hand and foot when they're with her, so we are the mean awful ones for making them be responsible for their own things and helping out to keep the house functional. Different generations I suppose. If it were all left to me though our house would be a wreck cause its just too much for one person to handle alone. Especially since no one ever taught me to do any of it.
Nah its fine. I'm more the neutral party in all this tbh, he's sad and the kids are upset with themselves and I'm just over here trying to get him to understand that they don't mean it and that they'd be devastated if he was gone. If its starting this early though I'm wondering how much I should dread these teenage years coming up. I've got a feeling we're gonna have at least one "you're not my real dad!" along the way which will probably be even worse since really he's the only real dad they've ever had.
It will happen... oh man.. I guess just let the lil ones no just how special a person who raises others children are..
any fool can be a dad but it takes a real man to be an actual “father”
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