I had some
interesting 'encounters out in PHX wit POF(Plenty Of Fish....luv that name!
)
Some were 'good' interesting and others were 'bat shit crazy' interesting.
I was in for fun, but if I found something good, I'd put forth a valid effort.
I did have a SugarMomma for a while. She was 12 yrs younger, very well off professional, and very fit. I never did figure out that woman........like any guy ever
REALLY ever does!
I never put on airs and I'm ALWAYS me, no matter what. I guess she liked that. We both had crazy work schedules and sometimes it was difficult, but we made the most of the time we had. She wasn't afraid to spend money at all and she was VERY generous to me.....VERY! I was very generous with her, just not in a financial manner.
With a young business, my money was in the business.
She got more clingy and demanding of
time as the relationship went on. She started going to the races with me. She even leased. not rented, this badass toterhome that we took to several races. It helped with the 'time' thingy ............fer a while.
It did finally come down to an ultimatum of business or her after about 6 months. Damn shame too! We got along so damn well and I think for the most part, we had very little differences on most matters and those small differences mattered very little. She had something in her background that she did have a good handle on this need for increasing time together. I can only guess she had someone to leave her that she had very deep feeling for and I guess she had an increasing desire in the relationship, as I did really. And that was really her only flaw. Not the desire for a more involved relationship, but her wanting me to sacrifice my attention to my new business that I LOVED and gave me vast amounts of job and SELF satisfaction.
I usually don't deal well with ultimatums, especially when I've done my best, but I was VERY fond of her. I sat down with her for one last time to work out the problem, but to no avail. Yeah, I admit it did hurt pretty bad. I gave her a little kiss and stroked her hair and told her I could do what she wanted, as I was tearin' up like a MF. I really think she thought I'd cave. The flood of tears came from her. I'm sure they were genuine and not a ploy. I told her that I was sorry that I just couldn't do what she wanted and that I had to go.......I did have to go or her crying was going to make my flood gates open up. Any woman crying gets me and more so with someone I care about.
I found out last month that she passed from covid in late 2020. My friend said she didn't marry, but didn't know if she had found anyone. I sure hope she did find someone. She really was a good soul.