be better that way. Maybe even get a handy j then im glad Im a dude cant imagine being pregnant and having to give birth. that make my anxiety go through the roof. And thanks for the reps my friend. im going to keep on keeping on. only way should be up from here.My wife @Mrs.InkAddict is a nurse no way would she be letting them sponge bath me...she would be there to do it herself...she's napping pregnant at 40 can wear you down I bet....