When me Mother had her hip transplant she had to sit on incontinence pads coz all the nerves are numbed and you cannot feel leakage.....
So a delivery man arrived at the gate....and she Shouted down the path ...I'm on me way....just a bit slow....
And He shouted back...no problem missus....I'll wait.....it's just your Incontinence pads....
She says she couldn't look her neighbours in the eye for weeks....