Morning
@Mossy ! Not to harsh the mellow, but remember, my son has a Trach so he sleeps on a ventilator. It's a whole process getting him up and stuff so alot easier to let them in while I get some away time.. all smoking no arguing. Win/win
I smoke, visit with you guys then shower and start the day with him. He is fine other than having 1 lung and a trach(which he will be off in the next few years thank god!) But we are full time caregivers to him. I quit my job after he came home from the hospital(spent his first 8 months there) and now she works from home for her parents and I do most of the house stuff and baby stuff. We don't want to have random nurses here so we chose to be his caregivers. thankfully we have enough support from family. As soon as his trach is out I can start working again and we can kinda get back to normal but yeah right now it's a 24hr job.