Hello Mossy.
I must say that the dinner went okey, it wasn’t so terrible after all - they are friendly people and in some way also the family to my GF.
I think i have accepted/learned that we all are different and why i don’t enjoy gatherings where we are supposed to talk about the weather and other less important things
just to be polite. (The weather can be important in some cases, then it’s talkable).
I’ll come back here in the afternoon and will explain about my feelings and why i dont like places with alot of people’s.