Live Stoners Live Stoner Chat - Oct-Dec '21

[mohawk warrior]

Since the subject is up now...............Do you think you may be a little stressed from your new business attempt? This may be something you are not aware of or acknowledging that it may be impacting you?

Just throwing stuff out there. Only you can tell if it may fit.

At first it was confusing and hard but like everything else I figured it out on my own and got to where I need to be with that so no it’s not that maybe 2 weeks ago? But not now.

So I know it's one of those things that a lot of people look at negatively, but talking to a therapist might really help. Sometimes its helpful to have a neutral party to just talk things through with.

Regardless, I don't think it would hurt to explain to her that you're having trouble understanding what it is that's bothering her, and that without knowing what's wrong you're not able to do anything to fix it. Try to stay as non emotional as possible, besides showing that you sincerely want to fix whatever it is. Whatever it is that's bothering her, ask her to help you come up with ways to correct it. Coming up with a plan together and (most importantly) following through with that plan can do a whole lot of good.

That’s something she’s always harping on about but it all boils down to, I don’t have 200$ an hour for 100+hours .
At least not right now..
Or did you mean like a couples therapy thing?
But I’m for sure gonna have to practice and then have that talk you mentioned. Thank you very much for that I really appreciate it.

Side note waiting to hear back from my cousin to shoot the shit about real estate on the reservation.... need an official head office which will probably be an office at cigarchief.com lol but I gotta figure out if it’s worth it doing the production on the Rez.
He’s a real business guy so ya..

 

[Suki]

At first it was confusing and hard but like everything else I figured it out on my own and got to where I need to be with that so no it’s not that maybe 2 weeks ago? But not now.


That’s something she’s always harping on about but it all boils down to, I don’t have 200$ an hour for 100+hours .
At least not right now..
Or did you mean like a couples therapy thing?
But I’m for sure gonna have to practice and then have that talk you mentioned. Thank you very much for that I really appreciate it.

Side note waiting to hear back from my cousin to shoot the shit about real estate on the reservation.... need an official head office which will probably be an office at cigarchief.com lol but I gotta figure out if it’s worth it doing the production on the Rez.
He’s a real business guy so ya..

Not sure where you're located but if you have insurance it should cover most if not all of the cost, otherwise, there's a lot of low cost options these days, especially through online services!

 

[mohawk warrior]

Not sure where you're located but if you have insurance it should cover most if not all of the cost, otherwise, there's a lot of low cost options these days, especially through online services!

My insurance/ benefits crapped out with the job loss... so ya that sucks
But I was unaware of low cost internet things.
But the thought of it makes me cringe .. yet I can talk to you guys no problem lmao
Oh man I am fucked
And I’m up in the north cannada heheheh

 

[Suki]

Only took a week but the door is finally finished. Now we just have to wait for it to be dry long enough to paint, and then we will be back to square 1 so we can put up the storm door lol. Took some creative engineering on my part but the storm door fits correctly now and the best part is, no more air leaks! Found some water damage and that's been fixed, cleared out a huge wasp nest from inside the wall and got that sealed up, new insulation is in, and no more open space into the attic either.

 

[420Forever]

especially through online services!

yup, u can engage in long dissertationz of pure psychobabble without ever havin to leave the comfort of ur laz-y-boy ppp

 

[Suki]

You can see here where I had to patch the plaster where the water damage was, the board behind the original door jam was rotted at the bottom due to water getting in.

 

[420Forever]

Only took a week but the door is finally finished. Now we just have to wait for it to be dry long enough to paint, and then we will be back to square 1 so we can put up the storm door lol. Took some creative engineering on my part but the storm door fits correctly now and the best part is, no more air leaks! Found some water damage and that's been fixed, cleared out a huge wasp nest from inside the wall and got that sealed up, new insulation is in, and no more open space into the attic either.
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...and then -> suki will post up a whole gallery of picz for us of the paint drying ppp

 

[Suki]

My insurance/ benefits crapped out with the job loss... so ya that sucks
But I was unaware of low cost internet things.
But the thought of it makes me cringe .. yet I can talk to you guys no problem lmao
Oh man I am fucked
And I’m up in the north cannada heheheh

If you google low cost therapy there's tons of options. And hey, it may not be the most comfortable thing to start, but if it helps your relationship I'd say it's probably worth the initial discomfort. A lot of times the anxiety over doing the thing (whatever the thing may be) is worse than *actually* doing the thing, in my experience.

 

[Suki]

...and then -> suki will post up a whole gallery of picz for us of the paint drying ppp

Well now that you've said it...

 

[Suki]

I'm fighting the urge to take the trim off the outside side of the door itself where its water damaged/warped and replacing it too lmao. Maybe once the storm door is up