lol you are burning yourself out by saying it's hurtful. I wouldn't believe you. But I'm in california we assume everyone is lying.I even said something to a coworker about it when he made a comment. I explained how hurtful that felt, that that is what they immediately think of me that I would be doing something illegal because I enjoy gardening. I was told I am too uptight. I said no, I am just tired of every time I talk about my hobbies someone has to be like "hurr you like growing stuff, why not weed?"
Of course, they don't know I am actually growing, LOL. But I am extremely careful to not cultivate that sort of image at work. I am very clean cut.
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