@Jaydot I've been thinking about your predicament a lot...let me totally restart my advice from square 1.
1) You should water your plants when the pot feels light. Grab a spare pot, fill it with medium, soak it to absolute death, like crazy amounts of runoff. That's what "fully watered" feels like, remember that weight. Before you water, heft your pots. If you go to pick them up and they feel surprisingly light, it's time to water. If they still feel somewhat hefty, you can wait. That's the first skill you need to learn as a grower, it's sort of like learning to cook a steak and know when it's done by poking it to feel if it's soft or springy. Soil probes and all that garbage don't work at all, just learn what a saturated pot feels like and what a dry pot feel like, and try to water before your pot feels so light that it's 'dry.'
2) BB should be fine through week three, and if it's not, there's nothing you can really do. Just water the plants as described above with pH adjusted water for a few weeks. When you see large fan leaves at the bottom of the pot start to barely get yellow, you know that the plant has exhausted nutrients in the root zone. Wait until the pot feels light enough to water, then mix up a very very weak batch (1/4 to 1/3 strength) and fertigate appropriately.
3) Alternate fertigating and watering like this: W-W-F-W-W-F-W-W-F. If you're only watering once or twice per week then that schedule should mostly work through flower. You may find that a fully blooming plant consumes way more water than a small seedling, so be aware of this and heft your pots frequently. You may find yourself surprised in mid flower that the plant drinks a whole 'heft' of water in one day, that's a good sign.
4) Once the plant stops growing vertically and is at its final height, switch to your blooming nutrient if you're using one. The plant will want vegetative nutrients until this point, even if it is covered in flowers. Once it's no longer growing vertically, the bloom nutrients will shift the bias of NPK towards a ratio more appropriate for fruitation.
5) As it nears senescence, the plant will stop taking up water and you'll find yourself needing to water less frequently. It's important that you continue hefting the pot so that you don't accidentally over water in the last few weeks.