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For my Dad... hard to lose him of course... but the last year was only suffering agony for him....
I find myself crying over that than anything else most.... Was so hard to see it and not be able to help.
Yeah...... ... people fear death....but it is the dying they should fear.
Until you are there...with a Love one....I don't Think most people apppreciate that.
I lost my dad July 8th this year.
We had a lot of differences. And we had a bit of a falling out. I'd let him move in with us and he took advantage and I had to move him back out. He was very angry about it.
I alternate between being angry at him and missing him.
I still catch myself thinking "I should tell dad..." and then realizing oh, I can't.
Try this.....get into your Happy place...with a float on........pen and paper...and write down Everything you Wish you could Say to him....good or bad........
You'll probably end up really upset...so....pre-roll a few........then...when you are ready....burn the List.....
Saves it going 'round and 'round in your head........
It does get better with Time.....you'll know when you can remember the Good Bits....and Smile............