I'm pretty much in the same boat and I'm good with that.(all this talk makez me so glad the only femalez in my life are a dog & cat ppp)
The last one broke my ass in the trust department............and didn't do my bank account any good.
But, I can honestly say, she's in a much better place in life than when we found each other. I put her thru MCSE computer training and she did quite well. I studied right along with her, so I could help her with test prep. I could have easily passed the final exam, but sure couldn't afford the pay cut.
I learned my lesson though! Stay the F away from abused women! No matter what you do, they will never trust you! I could still beat the hell outta the man that screwed her up!
And she was a red head, so she was batshit crazy anyway! She was a good person, but just so damn broken.
My 'Knight In Shining armor was permanently tarnished. And I had all shined up too!