Had to go back to lowes this afternoon cause I needed to be able to lay the first set of bricks out to figure out where exactly stuff was going to go (common measurement vs actual measurement is dumb af). Started with 13 and the 4 pavers and then once I got it drawn out I needed 73 more. Left hubby at home getting the area prepped and went to get the rest of the bricks, 2 bags of base, and another bag of sand. Loaded it all up on the flat cart, dragged the damn thing all the way to the front of the store cause for some stupid reason they close the garden center at 6, and then loaded all but the last 4 bricks and the three bags into the car when some random dude stopped while he was walking by and was like "excuse me miss, do you have that under control?" I looked at him and said no (but apparently not loud enough for him to hear) and he was like "what was that?" Told him that yes, I did indeed have it under control, and then I hefted the two bags of paver base over my shoulder and put them in just to make a point. He turned to his companion and was like "those things are like 50lbs each, I was just trying to help"