Ugh so terrible! Sadly, father's are not taken seriously, and it is NOT fair! I have two stepsons 6 and 7 with their mother on heroin. The person she's with was actually arrested for abusing them! They did not contact my husband they said they didn't feel it was necessary to let him know his kids were removed from the home temporarily. They were put back in her care and she won't let us see them or talk to them. I'm saving money to fight for custody. The system is so fucked up. I'm glad you have your boys and they are safe now.Hey man thanks for the rep but completely unnecessary. I know the pain that alienation causes. I've been suicidal and homicidal because of it. The worst part for me was knowing they were being abused and neglected, and not knowing the extent. Ive had my boys for a little over 6 months and the stories I've heard make my skin crawl and my blood boil. My boys are 17 and they're still stuck at 12-13 mentally. I'm just appalled at the blind eye society turned on my children. I fought all I could just to be told I was a disgruntled ex trying to cause problems.. my kids were doing heroin with their now step dad when they were 14. It's going to be a long road to get them ready for adulthood but it's a road that I'll gladly take them down. Sorry for the rant but it's off my chest now
I hope one day weather it's now or later, your boys realize how lucky they are to have a dad like you. My heart go out to you and your boys. Apologizes for these kinds of rants are not needed friend. Thats a expression of pain I think everyone can understand.Hey man thanks for the rep but completely unnecessary. I know the pain that alienation causes. I've been suicidal and homicidal because of it. The worst part for me was knowing they were being abused and neglected, and not knowing the extent. Ive had my boys for a little over 6 months and the stories I've heard make my skin crawl and my blood boil. My boys are 17 and they're still stuck at 12-13 mentally. I'm just appalled at the blind eye society turned on my children. I fought all I could just to be told I was a disgruntled ex trying to cause problems.. my kids were doing heroin with their now step dad when they were 14. It's going to be a long road to get them ready for adulthood but it's a road that I'll gladly take them down. Sorry for the rant but it's off my chest now
It's a wonderful system, designed for failure. I spent over 100g on lawyers. What a waste. The last time I took her to court myself and got way more out of it. I really wish you luck and hope for nothing but the best for you and your kidsUgh so terrible! Sadly, father's are not taken seriously, and it is NOT fair! I have two stepsons 6 and 7 with their mother on heroin. The person she's with was actually arrested for abusing them! They did not contact my husband they said they didn't feel it was necessary to let him know his kids were removed from the home temporarily. They were put back in her care and she won't let us see them or talk to them. I'm saving money to fight for custody. The system is so fucked up. I'm glad you have your boys and they are safe now.