I think if you tell one person that you grow even a close friend it's 1 to many they always Blab when there pissed etc I have been burned twice in many years alliances change over time so sometimes it's hard to keep a lid on it I'm all about me myself and I. Plus if I need advise I can find it here
yeah the only people that know i grow are my mum and my brother and even that i think is too many lol. i know they wont blab though. i am just curious how we have so many on here that have had issues i was starting to get paranoid about my online presence giving me away more then anything, theres so stalker types out there its a bit fucked up.
I'm good, I don't have any friends, no girl, nothing..So nobody knows my business unless I choose to include them in it...You have to sacrifice in the present to see the bigger picture later on sometimes.
sounds very similar to my situation, i wouldn't be doing this if i was still with my wife. helps i am basically a hermit with no friends so being pretty isolated it would be very very hard for anyone to pin me down as a grower in the real world. can't help myself though with being on places like this, i'd go crazy otherwise without you guys lol