Bandit, Bandit, Bandit-
I know the last thing you want right now is a lecture, so I'll save it for last.
You already know that it would be best to let the girls finish and flush for the next 10 days. If you feel like you can't, then leave them dark and flush the hell out of them for the next 2 days and then take them. It'll still be better and healthier than any cartel produced smoke you can get off the street.
Lecture time:
I assume from your dad's reaction that it is illegal for you or him to grow. If that's the case, you need to realize the jeopardy you put him in. He could face jail time, fines, loss of employment, loss of personal property and other punishments because you were irresponsible. You should sack up and tell him that you now realize all this and honestly tell him that you will never put him in harm's way again. EVER. He's your dad!
If it is legal and your dad just doesn't approve, you need to understand that it is his right to do so. My house, my rules kind of thing. He may just not like it or may know of certain personal risks that you are not privy to. You should have never started with out telling him and getting his approval. You need to apologize and tell him honestly that you won't do it as long as you live there.
All that said, I enjoyed watching your journal here and wish you the very best.