Not a problem brother, I'm always down for some dirty talk. I have only grown organic, and started on super soil and have had many ups and downs. Most of my experience comes from those down times.

One of these days you'll come by a problem/question you can help with, just pass that help on and keep the good vibe flowing is all I ask in return.
I'm not familiar with GBD's soil mix. The images on the link did not load, and I did not see a recipe. Nothing personal, but I'm not going to scour the whole thread for it. Can you just post it here. It could also help others give suggestions now, and later.
That's a bit of a loaded question. In short, yes you can just ph them both, and keep it in the proper range. I would take the opportunity to study your soil, and see what could be modified to help prevent pH swing in the future. Then you could just leave the pH pen in the junk drawer where it belongs.
Remember, just cause it worked for Joe Blow, it may give you different results. Same thing can be said for anything I tell you. The great thing about organics is there are many ways to get the results you'd like. It just depends how much work/research you are willing to do.
If you follow the link I posted on checking run off it will explain how to figure out the soil ph. Unless you have a soil pH probe, the run off is how you can check the pH.
When/if I pH my feed/water I do 5.9-6.1 in veg, and 6.3-6.5 in flower, but again with a "happy soil" the pH will regulate according to the plant needs.
A molasses feeding, say bi-weekly to monthly, will/should provide you with all the cal/mag you need. Some strains will want more cal/mag, but in general it should be just fine. I have Oily-cann by Earth Juice. It is a cal/mag with humic acids and zero nitrogen. I personally use it in a foliar spray about twice a week. (I foliar feed something every day, sometimes twice a day, sometimes just water) Foliar feeding is an easy and fast way to deliver micro nutrients, plus it gives the plant some physical stimulation (rain). I'll throw about anything in a spray bottle with a VERY light mix and give it a shot at least once.My current garden are photos that have been vegging for about 9-10 weeks, and between my soil, and sprays I have not gave them any cal/mag in the root zone. I also use LED which suck calcium out of the plants. (not sure why though)