Live Stoner Chat Well.....I'm Going to Lose my son

I'm terribly sorry for you and your family and my heart goes out to you. I can't begin to imagine what you're going through. :Feeling SAD..?:
 
Thank you all

Thank you all. I got teary eyed reading your all your posts.
I was kinda hooked up with someone that could help with getting cannabis oil, but was told we had to go to Oregon and get a MMJ card for my son.

Well my son got moved from the ICU last night to the CCU and from the sounds of it he won't be getting out anytime soon. He can't breath without an oxygen mask and his lungs keep filling with fluids. And not only inside his lungs, but I guess they said he has pockets around his lungs that are filling with fluids and puss.
They drained 3 liters of fluid and puss from around his lungs today and he's going in tomorrow so they can insert a camera inside his lungs to see what they're dealing with.

We were asked today if they want us to put him on an intubator (tube inserted into lungs to breath for him) which they keep him sadated to try and cure his infection (if that's what it is and not the cancer) if he gets worse.
We were also told there's a good chance he won't be coming home with us.

So we're trying to decided if it's worth prolonging his life and have him be miserable while we try to find Oil and see if it works.
I was told the lungs are the first place the oil starts working though.
So I'm not even sure if it's too late. But wether it is or isn't.....as a parent I'm not giving up till the end.

I have no idea how to set up a donation page and honestly I'm not thinking straight enough right now to set one up. I'd have to look into it, but really it seems like we don't have alot of time left, so not sure if that'd help in time. I've only had maybe 4 hours sleep in the past 2 days. After my post here my wife called and told me to come to the hospital right away, so I didn't get to sleep last night.

I'll have to look into those links when I'm thinking more clear headed. I have to sit here and think for like 5 mins just to type each paragraph I make.

My sons 18 for the person to ask.
Well I'm going to stop here cause my eyes are burning and I'm just not with it and I can't be like that cause I have 2 other boys I need to be strong for and take care of.

Thank you all again and I'll keep you all updated.
Here's a couple pictures of my son. One if from when this first started before he lost his hair..........and the other is from the other day......... :(
Now he has a full face mask for oxygen and looks in worse shape

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You have a beautiful son Slow2Gro.
It makes me sad to read all this, im not very good with all this websites and donations and stuff, but i will go see if i can find some website that offers that service. You deserve to get a chance to try the oil for your son!
Im only a couple of years older than your son, no one should have to be in this situation in his age, and neither should you as a parrent.

Im sending lots of love and karma your way, and try to catch some sleep brother, sleep is important when you have to stay strong like this.

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Hi again.
****** seems like an easy solution for this donation thing, go make an account and start up a donation, im sure they are willing to help you get started if you can't figure it out yourself. (i find ****** a little confusing at times)
Go make one, and start sharing it on facebook. every little dollar counts.
https://www.******.com/webapps/mpp/fundraising

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Hi again.
****** seems like an easy solution for this donation thing, go make an account and start up a donation, im sure they are willing to help you get started if you can't figure it out yourself. (i find ****** a little confusing at times)
Go make one, and start sharing it on facebook. every little dollar counts.
https://www.******.com/webapps/mpp/fundraising
 
We have a fundrazr page for him that we made when this first all started, but its scary cause if I post it I feel like it exposing me/us since it has his name in it and we don't have a common last name, we're always the only ******* in the phone book.

I do also have a ****** account but its linked to an old bank account. And when I think about changing it now or making a new fundrazr account my brain freezes up and I can't think straight. Its kinda weird, but all I can do is think of my son. Its hard to explain.

Thank you all for listening to our story. Much love my friends.
 
I understand it must be hard thinking straight.
You don't have to share the page in here, maybe you can just start by posting it to your friends and people you know on facebook, its a very good way to get it out there and spreading the word.
There's a lot of good people out there willing to help.
As long as you make it clear to everyone that this is real, not a joke or someone trying to steal money from people (some people might think that)
Im sure a lot of people will help you get the money for the oil!
But thats just my thoughts.

Best wishes to you and your family.
 
It might be worth lookin into, I saw a web page selling cbd oils and such online and it was all legal apparently due to being less than 1% thc. Can't find it though but the downside was pretty huge prices for the stuff
 
Yeah we're poor. I quit my job a year ago to take care of my son and my wife barely makes enough to pay the bills and support a family of 5. Gas traveling to and from the city a few times a week eats away at any extra money we would have.

Ive posted the link on Facebook before, but when you only have 3 friends and one is your wife, it doesnt really do much or make a difference. I'm personally not a fan of Facebook and only made the account cause my wife made me. And everyone she knows helped out before, but it wasnt much, but we're still grateful for what they could donate.
 
:hug: and :karma Cloud:, Slo2Grow.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
 
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