^^^^
If you where able to get any kind of a buzz from just being around it, it would be EXTREMELY common knowledge. Hell I wouldn't even harvest my plants.

Just get a lawn chair in the tent, and veg out with them.
Morton is right about the 2nd hand smoke too. It would take a metric ton of dense smoke to get high/buzzed. Besides being slipped like a spiked edible, it is kinda hard to high on herb with out directly trying to.
My wife doesn't smoke, eat, touch it, and has never had a problem besides the smell. You and her can rest at ease.