Kind of a broad stroke there. You no longer can categorize one group as "stoners". And you cant certainly say...you are a pansy..you're not allowed to smoke...it confuses me . You can not discern a stoner from a burger flipper, factory worker from a lawyer, doctor, politician anymore just by the clothes they wear now a days . Smokers that want to remain anonymous who like to smoke , if it just recreational, or medicinal, choose not to openly display their pleasure of using. There are consequences when it comes to social norm and stigma. I will say that, stoners who openly show and display their attitude about smoking, more than likely have no true consequences in their life style or job . meaning they can get away with it without losing much .
I would like to add , I feel like you are crowding stoners into the "snowflake" category . For the most part I feel that most true stoners just want to be left alone, and as for the snowflakes who smoke....well, its just another avenue they use to show how the Gov't controls them...but then again, isnt the Gov't do that to all people who want it to be their choice and legal?
I dont care who smokes, it dont make you better or worse than anyone else.