hey there, all you really have to do is go to the e-shop, read and follow directions. There are links to threads that will answer all the questions you asked in your first post.
wiz is a busy man but i'm sure he will get back to you when he's got a moment but if you don't want to wait hit up the e-shop again and place an order.
and jem is right, you need to have at least 50 posts in order to get the member special
good luck!