welcome DJmilkcrate!
stay a bit and get used to the vibe around here. It's worth putting in the work and getting to know the feel of how AFN works trust me, you'll be wasting your time at any other forum!
TBM is straight to the point and speaks in a very matter of fact kind of fashion. reading words without context can sometimes come across as harsh but i guarantee you TBM is the man to go to for any question about growing. He will give you the best possible answer and takes the time with you when you ask but you have to remember he has a job here and that's to make sure this site runs smoothly. I like his nip it in the butt attitude, that way we can keep the positive vibe of this place rolling just like it should be. I assure you TBM and the rest of us here want nothing more than to see your grows flourish!
the rules are in place for all of our safety. Stick around and watch as all the magic here at AFN unfolds. You will make great friendships, gain lots of knowledge and always have a home for your grow logs to look back on.
Good luck in all your growing adventures and WELCOME!
