you're not going to burn them out in 3 months regardless of how you drive them, assuming it's properly connected to the heatsink. those passive pin fin heatsinks should more than handle most wattages, especially if you point a fan in their general direction.
id go with the meanwell hlg-185h-c1400A/B. B if you're comfortable soldering or have someone who will help who is, A if you aren't. if you get the B version you'll be able to run it at 0-200w, A at 100-200w. i doubt very much that you'll damage any plants at 200w (as long as you maintain distance), but this gives you the ability to fine tune it to where you want it to be.
id go with the meanwell hlg-185h-c1400A/B. B if you're comfortable soldering or have someone who will help who is, A if you aren't. if you get the B version you'll be able to run it at 0-200w, A at 100-200w. i doubt very much that you'll damage any plants at 200w (as long as you maintain distance), but this gives you the ability to fine tune it to where you want it to be.