Alright man! Thanks so much!
I tried to keep them all small by using small pots and holding back on water and food till they flowered (early due to the stress) all of this controlled the size so they would all squeeze in nicely but still be healthy. I knew that the sour crack would grow shorter and I knew the deep blue c would be all the same height and if not bend the top (not supercrop). Lastly is the wildcard thrown in a week later, Snaggle Twof which is a toof decay. I knew she would be very different and planned all along to bend the top to fit the SOG, not supercrop it (I didn't break it). Just a nice gentle low stress 48 hour bending... Finally because three of the sour cracks are a few inches shorter than everyone else, I put them up on raised wire racks last night...
The rest of the stuff I've done is just to expose as many flowers as possible, once they get to the right height...
Please let me know if this makes it a little clearer about how I got things to work...