Thanks!
Yea I just looked under your links and one was at day 49 and it was huge! I mean maybe I might have a chance of it getting a little bigger since it isn't showing sex yet.
As your first, my personal opinion, don't give up!
Nothing I ever did the first time was great... sometimes not even good...but I remember it and learnt from it. Just think of it as a pet... would you "return" your dog if he took too long to learn to sit or shit outside... and get a new one and try again...
In the age of save game and retry stick to your plant [emoji271]
Heheheh sorry got some really first class hash today....