"Mossy is also known as Aunty Mossy, the term Aunty in this form is a term of affection by the members, no one gets special treatment all are treated equal"
Not true.
Aunty is not equal. Aunty is....... "She who must be obeyed" as I have learned to my cost.
In any democratic entity, there has to be a Thacherite despot who has the final say. But this is not Aunty. No comparison can be made with the Evil Witch Mrs T.
But she is the benevolent leader who's word is respected as final. That sits well with me.
I am putting myself forward as Her Majesty's "Groom of The Stool" if she will accept. (google that one !)
eP.