Quoted from Urban Dictionary:
feeder: Usually a male who
likes to encourage weight gain in his partner through the consumption of
food. Feeders differ from FAs... whilst an FA is attracted to big
girls, a feeder gets turned on by making a thin girl fat....or a big girl even bigger.
(
see entry for
feederism)
Everyone who grows herbs wants to his big girls even bigger, its a perfectly normal instinct...