Thanks its all good now but I'm having a total nightmare as my coco plant is exploding in growth and when I moved her a stem completely snapped off!All good. Just because you have some grafting tape is no reason to torture your plants, unless you want too
Now I'm just not going to stress, she's day 18 and it looks like she's had a good topping. I stuck some black tape over the end to protect her but the sooner I get a bigger tent the better