@1939bear. I feel your pain brother. It must be the Canna Gods messing with both of us. I waited over a month for a second Triangle Dragon female and she finally arrived,,,in the form of a tiny 6 oz cup grown 4 inch tall Bonsai sized TD I've been pampering.
I topped the next plant in line to flower and what grows out of the top? A male pod instead of new tops.
Hang in there 9Bear, The Gods have a sense of humor too.