What I do is watch for tacoing, and back off if I see it. With those watts, you should have lots of power for your 4x4. You could start with them dialed down at recommended distance, or on full power but greater distance. More power from further away makes for more "penetration".
You are correct that the par charts will both be inaccurate. However, if you overlap the charts to mimic your light placement, simply adding the two charts together at each point should get you close to your combined par. It may not be quite accurate due to different wall reflection than used during par mapping of the individual lights, but I expect that any inaccuracy will be smaller than the variation in light tolerance between strains anyway. Bottom line is that the plants have the final say.
Good luck with it.