Welcome to the forum, glad to have you. The two seedbanks with banners at the top of the page, Dope-Seeds and Dutch Passion, can both do stealth shipments to you. Also, check the e-Shop at the top of the page. Good genetics from the breeders here.
Since you are new to autos I'd suggest you take a look at Mi5. Easy to grow, potent and a good yield. Some other favorites are Himalayan Blue Diesel, Auto Assassin and Onyx. All depends on what your looking for in the way of high/stone.
We also have a New Growers forum here. I moderate it, along with Joe Dirt. Come on by and well do what we can to help you get off to a good start.